Ode to the Angel and Devil at Play

As Angels they come to you to stay;

As Devils, they appear at times to play;

Yet blessings they are and in life it’s true;

Their time shall bring Greater joy to you.

In moments of trial you may wonder awhile;

What prompted you to desire this child?

Then are blessings revealed through tears;

Those often aren’t recognized for years.

Times there'll be that you say WHY ME!

Then whispered you hear, "Do you still love me?"

That moment is fragile and delicate for each of you.

For each is hurting and confused it is true

Yet I implore your embracing reply,

"Oh, Child, I love you!”

Years will pass and they shall grow;

before you are ready, they shall go.

Leaving you to reflect and ponder anew.

How their time has brought Greater joy to you.

Then you shall remember the angel’s stay;

And laugh as you recall their devilish play;

Mere hours or days it will seem, their volume and their presence is banished to a screen;

And your heart is given to a rending or joy, as you weep, laugh, keen, or groan.

Once more the screen is black, leaving you to reflect and ponder anew.

How their time brought Greater joy to you.

Fondly, you remember the angel’s stay;

And laugh as you recall their devilish play.

This is a poem written for my wife about our children and the ever-present knowledge that these precious beings in our home have both angel and devil-like behaviors that bring us joy and heartache.   

It was first publically shared with Jarrett and Meara Boling as a card for their first child's baby shower gift.  Since that time, it has been shared with as part of each child announcement card that is passed around at work.

It has grown as life's experiences have taught me more of the joys and sorrows of parenthood.  Each moment is precious and worthy of your full attention.